Posts Tagged ‘Attack’

Approach, Avoid, Attack

Approach Avoid Attack - Cheryl Woolstone Counselling Blog

All interactions are based on three behaviours.

In love relationships:

Approach is showing interest, enjoyment, compassion and care. You turn towards each other.

Avoid means you want to get away from your partner, blow off their perspective or have them shut up. The implication is that the other is not worth your attention.

Attack is an attempt to undermine confidence, to get the other person to agree with you and do what you want. Read more »

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