Posts Tagged ‘Avoid’

Are You A Flake?

Are You A Flake? - Cheryl Woolstone Counselling Blog Post

Check out this irreverent, smart article by Sonia Simone:

The Complete Flake’s Guide To Getting Things Done

So many of my clients identify themselves as “stuck”, unable to follow through on their ideas, dreams and passions. Big dreamers, poor executors and as a result little confidence and low self esteem.

Learn from Sonia how to stop the “Flaky” and become proud and productive.

Approach, Avoid, Attack

Approach Avoid Attack - Cheryl Woolstone Counselling Blog

All interactions are based on three behaviours.

In love relationships:

Approach is showing interest, enjoyment, compassion and care. You turn towards each other.

Avoid means you want to get away from your partner, blow off their perspective or have them shut up. The implication is that the other is not worth your attention.

Attack is an attempt to undermine confidence, to get the other person to agree with you and do what you want. Read more »

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